Julius Agwu undoubtedly one of Nigeria’s most successful entertainers.
He in recent chat with said that he met his wife pretty Ibiere at a wedding in Port-Harcourt in 2000. She was
part of the bridal train. My mind was blown away when I sighted her ‘’ He
revealed that they dated for eight years,because her parents insisted that she
must complete her education and enroll for masters degree programme’’.
However, they lost contact and
re-connect again in 2002,we got married in 2008.
When you court your spouse, that’s
when you understand yourselves better. You find out what she likes and what she
doesn’t; her shortcomings as well as yours and find a way to blend with her.
Some marriages are having problems today because of the inability of the couple
to bring God into it. These are two people from different backgrounds coming
together to live as husband and wife. I am very temperamental and my wife too
is a stubborn woman. But in spite of these shortcomings, we have learnt to
manage our issues.
As a comedian he said her wife is ‘’not only beautiful, but she is also
intelligent ,combines beauty and brain’’.
Julius Agwu further stated that her wife love him from the onset of the
relationship ‘’ she likes me. But when I first met her, she was about 18 years
and she was giving me an attitude. I wasn’t patient as I got angry. I didn’t
want to beg anybody . This went on until 2002, when I lost my father and we ran
into each other again. Coincidentally, that was her birthday. He got connected
again. She came with her friends and we hung out that night. We exchanged our
contact again and renewed our love for each other’’
Moreover he said ''5 years after it has not been easy. Marriage can be funny.
When it is sweet, it is sweet, and when you quarrel with your spouse, it looks
as if that is the end of the marriage. But my attitude has always been that no
two marriages can be the same. That has been my style. You may quarrel, keep
malice but the most important thing is that I have decided to spend the rest of
my life with her, for better and for worse until death do us apart’’.
Agwu advice to young couple that ‘’whatever
you do in life, you need to hold onto God. At any point, married couples need
God to mediate in their marriages. Problem starts when they allow third party
to interfere in their marriage. We are in an era where a lot of marriages are
hitting the rock.'' '' Love is the foundation upon which marriage is built, that’s
the truth’’
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