Omotola
Jalade Ekeinde, Nollywood star actress said ''I have been tempted many times to cheat on my
husband by men I really liked. But when you think of what you stand to lose......it is not worth the trouble.''
"Absolutely.
I have been tempted many times to cheat on my husband by men I really liked.
But when you think of what you stand to lose, the destruction of all you have
labored to build, when you weigh all the options, you are left to conclude that
it is not worth the trouble. I know some women will find this somewhat
objectionable, but if they want to be truthful to themselves, they will agree
with me that, as married women, we have all faced moments that I have just
described.” Omotola said
Asked if she receives
gifts from her male admirers, a very candid Omotola said
"Sure, I
have received lots of goodies from my male admirers. I do not give anything in
return. I always tell them that I am married and would not compromise my
martial vows. If after making that point clear, they still continue to shower
me with gifts, maybe believing that something will break in the future, then I
cannot help them.”
Asked if her
passion for her husband has cooled with time, Omotola said yes, but she also
said it's a normal thing for couples who have been together for a long time.
She encouraged women to try something she calls 'temporary separation' to bring
back the fire in their marriage
"Of course,
it has. Which married woman who has been with her husband for years will, in
her true state, tell you that the feeling has remained the same as it was the
first time or the first year she met her husband? It is bound to cool off. What
I recommend to women is what I call “temporary separation.” You will make
yourself unavailable to your husband. Go somewhere, go on vacation with your
friends, do something bold, lose weight, look different and, after weeks, come
home, looking drop dead gorgeous, and I bet you, the fire of passion will be
mightily rekindled and you will feel brand new again. I have applied this
principle in my marriage and it has worked wonders.” she said
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