Kafayat Adegoke , 30, a Lesbian, who
tricked a man into getting her pregnant because she didn't want to use a
surrogate and couldn't afford IVF but desperately wanted a child, has been
criticized by critics who think she is being selfish by excluding the
baby's Dad from its life! Read what they wrote…..
Matt O’Connor, founder of Fathers
For Justice says a child needs a mother AND a father in their life.
He said:
He said:
And it is a fundamental human right
that a child has access to their father. It is sad that anyone wants to bring a
baby into the world in the knowledge that they are denying them access to half
of their family.
It isn’t just the dad who loses out but also the paternal
grandmother and grandfather.
Unfortunately, women are stopping fathers becoming involved
in children’s lives more and more with devastating consequences.We would support this man in taking legal action to gain
access to his child.
Anne Diamond, a new agony aunt said:
Kafayat is showing she’s little more
than a child herself. She thinks having a baby is all about her.
It’s not, it is always about the child who will grow up
questioning why he or she hasn’t got a daddy.
It’s one thing to grow up fatherless because he couldn’t, or
didn’t want to be around. Quite another to discover your mother deliberately
deprived you of a dad. On top of that, it’s miserably unfair to the
unsuspecting men.
Stop it, Kafayat. Grow up before your selfishness deprives
your child of a decent mother too.
Emma Kenny, a psychologist,
therapist and lecturer says Kafayat is a manipulator that has no right to
deny her baby a relationship with its father
She said:
She has completely taken advantage
of this man. When a child is brought into this world both a mother and father
are of equal importance.
She has tricked him and manipulated him into answering
questions to find out his suitability for a process he didn’t even know he was
involved in.
Then to actually wish to exclude him, basically branding him
worthless, displays a certain degree of narcissism. She is denying the
importance of men, revealing a warped sense of her own self worth.
Not the best quality for a mother, it suggests she’s willing
to do whatever it takes to get what she wants.
Children like to have a relationship with their father. In
denying him a part in the child’s future, she’s making a decision for a child
who has a right to know who their father is.
She doesn’t have the right to remove this opportunity.
They are also trying to contact the man who got Kafayat pregnant with the ad below:
Are you the daddy? Did you get Kafayat pregnant or were you one of the other men? Email features@sundaymirror.co.uk or call 0207 2933061.
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