"I WAS SEXUALLY ABUSED AS A CHILD"~~T Y BELLO ( HER STORY)

TY Bello,celebrity Photographer, who discovered  ex-bread-seller turned model, Olajumoke, has revealed that she was sexually abused as a child. TY Bello who shared her story and the trauma it caused her, with celebrity Cinematographer, Kemi Adetiba, said;



“I was sexually abused as a child and because of this, I felt like there was something ugly about me that made me encounter this. This was not the abuser’s fault, this was me.


I used to see other girls as flowers and I saw myself as dirty cement, hard and ugly. I never felt beautiful, everything was wrong with me, I was hairy and it was a problem.


I always attributed everything that was about me to be the reason someone took advantage of me. I thought there was something wrong with me because if the others girls were like me perhaps they would be dirty like me but they were flowers.



When a friend told me about salvation, she told me old things would be passed away and all things will become new. It was as if God could wash away that stench and I would become a girl because I didn’t feel like a girl.


I was shocked when I grew up and found that one out every three or four girls in my secondary school had suffered the same thing and I could tell them the same thing… that old thing can pass away.


It was a relief to find that I was not the only one and a shock that nobody talks about it. That’s why salvation worked, I had a daddy and I was going to be a flower.”

LAGOS PROPHET COLLECTED N70 MILLION TO TREAT A BIZWOMAN OF FIBROID !

A pastor with a white garment church has been arrested by the Special Fraud Unit, Milverton, Ikoyi, Lagos, for allegedly collecting N70 million to treat a businesswoman of fibroid.

His arrest followed a complaint lodged by the victim’s husband, over allegation that Femi intended to eliminate him and take over his property. The businesswoman had been suffering from the ailment which defied medical treatment for 14 years, until she was introduced to Pastor Femi.

Commissioner of Police in-charge of SFU, Mr. Ibrahim Lamorde, said:
“The prophet initially charged the woman N98k and he gave her some herbs, which stopped the bleeding for a while.

When the bleeding started again in 2014, she went back to the prophet, who brought in a new twist to the matter. He hypnotised her and convinced her that her husband was responsible for her problems. .
He convinced her that her husband was also after her children’s lives, accusing him of being a cultist and that the bleeding was the source of his money. The woman was asked to bring money for sacrifices and rituals.

She also built him a 5 bedroom duplex at Ojokoro area of Lagos and another in Ado-Ekiti, upon his request. The prophet also warned her to stop sleeping with her husband and instructed her and her children to give him 70% of the money the man gave them monthly.

For 3 years the prophet would come and sleep in the man’s house, without his knowledge. After his arrest, we discovered that one of his accounts had over N70m, paid in by the victim. We learned that the prophet has two other accounts.

The suspect had collected a chieftaincy title in Ekiti with the money. Also recovered were a Toyota Highlander and a Lexus GX 470 all bought for him by his victim. Femi proudly told us that he is a prophet and a native doctor and that he helped the woman and uses brain to collect money from her.
We have decided to bring this to the public domain to warn people about fraudsters, who hide under churches as prophets or pastors. We have saved this victim’s husband from death, as that would have been the next plan.”

PHOTOS: SHADE OKOYA @40 IN STYLE...

Shade Okoya, MD of Eleganza Industrial City and wife to billionaire business man Chief Rasak Okoya, celebrated her 40th birthday in style on Sunday night. Olori Wuraola Ogunwusi,  Ruth Osime, Nkiru Anumudu,Omowunmi Akinnifesi, Jennifer Obayuwana, Enemaya Lawani and more were present at the celebration. Olamide also performed at the event. See more photos after the cut.

FORMER "MISS CHARISMATIC NIGERIA 2013" MOLOLU BARUWA DIES @23 !

Mololuwa Yewande Baruwa, former Miss Charismatic Nigeria 2013 and top model, has been reported dead.

The 23 year old Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU) final year Public Administration student died in the late hours of Friday April 29th after suffering a brief illness.

May her soul rest in peace

MAN SENTENCED TO DEATH FOR KILLING HIS FLATMATE'S WIFE IN DELTA STATE

Mr. Narebor Stephen Donbrapade,40, a judiciary staff in Delta State, has been sentenced to death by hanging for stabbing his flatmate’s wife to death by a Delta State high court sitting in Ughelli.

The accused, who hails from Esama town in Bomadi Local Government Area, had on or about January 31, 2013, murdered one Stella Avwenayerhe by stabbing her on the chest at Otobo Street, Ughelli.


Donbrapade, who shared a three bedroom flat with the deceased’s husband, was said to have had a minor altercation with the victim after he walked on the rug in the sitting room without removing his shoes.

 Annoyed that he was reprimanded by the deceased, the accused was said to have dashed into his room only to appear with a knife with which he stabbed Stella Avwenayerhe on the chest. She was
confirmed dead by doctors at the Ughelli Central hospital, where she was rushed to by neighbours.

The accused, in his defense, pleaded not guilty to the one-count charge of murder, alleging that the victim was stabbed to death by some unidentified hoodlums in the area.

Delivering his judgment, Justice F. O. Ohwo found the accused guilty on the one-count charge preferred against him by the State Attorney-General through the Director of Public Prosecutions.

He held that the evidences of the four prosecution witnesses called by an Assistant Director in the Ministry of Justice, including the husband of the deceased, proved beyond all reasonable doubt the essential ingredients of the offence of murder against the accused. 

ADULTERY : MOTHER OF 8 DIES AFTER ABORTION IN OGUN STATE

Tragedy struck in Abeokuta, Ogun State capital when a mother of eight, identified as Sukurat Adedoyin, reportedly died following complications from abortion of pregnancy.

Sunday Vanguard reports that the 33-year-old deceased, who was alleged to have been impregnated by her boyfriend, Alabi Kamilu, 30, sought the help of an auxiliary nurse, Bello Abosede, 34, to terminate the pregnancy.


According to the Investigating Police Officer, Asake Morowuntonu, said the victim was a married woman and had had eight children. Morowuntonu stated that Kamilu, the alleged boyfriend, forced the deceased to terminate the pregnancy.

THROWBACK PHOTOS :HOW AKIOLU GREETED PEOPLE BEFORE MEETING OONI

Few days, the Oba of Lagos, Rilwan Akiolu, made news headline for allegedly disgracing the Ooni of Ife at a function. According to the statement credited to the Oba of Lagos' palace, Oba Akiolu who snubbed the Ooni of Ife, was trying to bring back an old way of greeting ‘inu mi, inu e’, "--- the Lagos Monarch did not ignore Ooni of Ife at the public function as being misconceived by people. He said Oba Akiolu’s response to Ooni is the culturally acclaimed way of greeting by a monarch in Lagos.

“The sign by Oba Akiolu signifies, ‘inu mi, inu e’, the culture of greeting in Lagos. if Oba Akiolu wanted to ignore, he would have turned his face away from Ooni,” he said. In his words, "there is no misunderstanding between both highly revered Monarchs in Yoruba Land”.

“There is no sentiment in the culture of Lagos. As we met it that is the way we are doing it. Kabiesi Oba Akiolu is trying to bring back the old pattern, the old culture we have left behind”


See below the way Oba of Lagos dey greet others and reconcile it with the 'traditional way'  ‘inu mi, inu e’, he greeted the Oni of Ife. ( I leave you to be the judge here.) Here are  the pics......