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Sunday 8 December 2013

SHE IS A DAUGHTER OF A GHOST DAD...MARRIED A GHOST..HAVE KIDS FOR A GHOST !

A friend of mine, Lara Nike Onasanya-Tofowomo, mailed this strange story culled from Nigerian tribune to me, I take my time to read through, its look as if am watching late Kola Olawuyi;s ‘Nkan Mbe’  video ! The story may look like fairy tales but with the way this young lady narrated her story, it deserves a second look. However, is this fiction, hallucination or fabrication?
Taiyelolu Abdulrahman,20, whose father, died almost 20 years ago, nurtured  her till she was married to another dead or “ghost” husband, one thing leads to another ,below  is Taiyelolu’s story:
‘’She and her twin brother, Kehinde, grew up with their father in a flat at the Ajah area of Lagos. They led a relatively comfortable life in the house where they only depended on generator as the only source of electricity. Although their father was not engaged in any kind of work, he provided for them.
“My father was not working. He never left the house except on a few occasions at night. But if I asked for N50, 000, he gave it to me. We had no visitors and we visited nobody,” she said.
All they had to do were sleep, eat and watch home videos.
Asked about her mother, she said she and her twin brother grew up to know only their father. They did not see any woman with him. To go out of the house, their father gave the twins a small gourd each which they simply clasped to their palms and then they burst out on the road and board vehicles to the market to purchase food items like wheat, semovita, macaroni, spaghetti and rice. They never consumed amala (yam flour meal).
On a particular day, however, Taiyelolu forgot to take her gourd and as she stepped out of the house, what confronted her was a cemetery with a lot of vaults and a bushy environment.
She screamed and dashed back inside. Then, her father told her to pick the gourd, atona (guide) as it was called. As she clasped the object to her palm and then ventured out, this time, she found herself on a busy tarred road.
Another incident which frightened her happened in the night. “My father went out whenever he wanted but it was always around 10.00 or 11.00 p.m. He would not take anyone along with him. But there was a day I begged him to take me out to where he usually went and he obliged. When we got there, something strange and fearful happened. It was like a canteen and there, I saw a small cooking stand with a big pot on it without firewood or fire and the food was boiling. I asked my father how it was possible for food to cook without firewood and fire and the woman selling the food became angry and slapped me. She asked my father who I was; that I was not part of them but only wanted to expose their secrets. My father begged her and we left the place,” she remarked.
After the incident, her father refused to take her out again so that she would not be privy to the secrets and circumstances surrounding their true identities. Since then, she refused to take food from her father, but only cooked her own food.
 By the time Taiyelolu came of age, her father did not allow her the choice of a husband, but asked her to marry someone identified as Abdulazeez. The man moved in with them and behaved like her father.
Soon, she got pregnant. And when she eventually went into labour, she said her father went out, brought back a particular kind of leaf which he applied on her navel and she was delivered of a baby boy without any complication. Her father, who acted as the midwife, took care of the placenta. She bore her two other boys in the same manner. Her children were named Abdul Qayum (now eight years old), ‘Rokeeb (four) and Jamiu (two and a half).
But what revealed the true identities of her father and husband? She disclosed that all the jealously guarded secrets began to come to the open when Kehinde declined to marry a lady recommended by their father.
They continued their routine life until their father considered Kehinde mature enough to get married and brought a lady home for him. But Kehinde was said to have refused outright to marry “one of them.” Taiyelolu said she asked him what he meant by “one of them” but he told her not to bother as she was only a woman who was oblivious of what was happening.
“One day, Kehinde was eating and he suddenly coughed, slumped and died. My father did not feel any sorrow as a result of this. He buried my brother in an unknown place. When I asked him about where he buried him, he said some Muslim clerics had come to pray over his body and he had buried it. Not convinced by his response, I said to him: “When I had my babies, no clerics came for the naming, but they came for the burial of my brother?’”
Disturbed by the shocking death of her brother, Taiyelolu confronted her father that she wanted to know his family. That decision marked the beginning of her journey into a new world.
“Eventually, my father agreed to take me and the children to his hometown, Offa, Kwara State. He said he was from the imam’s family. When we almost got to his family house, he said he wanted to check on someone close by and pointed the house to us. He asked us to ask for Alhaji Hussein Salmoni, his uncle. When we met his uncle and explained ourselves to him, he was taken aback. He eventually showed us his grave. He said my father died over 20 years ago,” she said.
Amid bewilderment, Taiyelolu left for the only place she knew as home, Ajah, Lagos, but could not locate their house again. What worsened her situation was the mysterious disappearance of the gourd which her father had given her and could have guided her back to the house.
She went to Ilorin in an effort to locate her mother’s family house which her father told her was Isale Koto. She managed to strike up conversations with some people who introduced her to a radio presenter who narrated her story on air. She also met a lady who she followed to Ede, Osun State, and stayed with for about a month. It was while in that city that she traced her husband’s parents.
She claimed that she was walking by the road one day when a car parked by her side and the driver told her that it was her birthday and in order to felicitate with her, gave her a handset with a SIM card. Taiyelolu is uncertain of her age, but assumed that she could be more than 20.
“It was when I got to ‘this world’ that I realised that I am too young to have given birth to three children with the fourth on the way. Also, I did not know that there is a place where people struggled to earn a living until I got here. It saddens me that I now wake up every day with no money.”
She said she never attended a school, but that her father had the knowledge of the Qur’an and had western education. According to her, her father was the one who taught her and her brother Arabic and a bit of western education,” she said. It is obvious that Taiyelolu is truly versed in the recitation of the Qur’an. Her children now attend a primary school in the village.
On how she got to Tonkere, she said she went to observe the evening prayer at a mosque in Ede when, after prayers, she was chatting with the imam and an old man appeared and told her in clear terms that she was suffering.
The man then asked her why she was obstinate about returning the children with her to Tonkere, her husband’s place of birth. The man said if she refused to do so within three days, something unpleasant would become of the children and the man disappeared.
Then she asked the imam if he saw the old man who just interrupted their conversation, but the imam said no. She then collected N200 from the cleric, fetched her children and the four of them, at about after 8.00 p.m., boarded a motorcycle to Akoda junction for N50.
At the junction, she asked another cyclist to take her to Tonkere but the man, because of the fact that it was late in the day, charged her N1000, whereas she only had N150. But it was necessary that the children got to Tonkere that night because their father, who was deceased, demanded that she took them to his people.
As she pleaded with the cyclist, a car parked by them and mediated in the matter. The driver asked the cyclist to convey the woman and her children to their destination for N500, which was the usual fare. The man gave the cyclist the N500, wrote down the motorcycle’s number and warned the cyclist to take the passengers to no place but the mosque at Tonkere.
As they alighted from the motocycle at Tonkere, Taiyelolu said her husband appeared to her physically.
She said he pointed to the shop opposite the mosque as his mother’s and the third building to the shop as his father’s house, saying “I should ask for his father, Pa Gbadamosi. As they conversed, her husband said a lady who was passing by, Tosin, was his sister and he called her.” Between the time Taiyelolu looked in the direction of the lady and looked back in her husband’s direction, he had disappeared.   
The lady is with her husband’s people now, but they did not receive her with open arms because the aged parents of Abdulazeez were confused about how their first son, who died at a tender age, could have fathered three children. They are suspicious of their supposed daughter-in-law and are acting cautiously around her. But she dismissed any suspicious of band motives asking why she would want to lie herself into a poor home.
Also, Taiyelolu’s mother-in-law, the Iyalode of Tonkere, had been down with stroke and the father-in-law is a farmer. Financially, they are not capable of supporting Taiyelolu and her children.
The lady, who said the clothes she uses now were given to her, added that they were rags, compared to the ones she wore in her father’s house. What pointed to the fact that she could truly be from another world was the way she was lamenting openly about the treatment meted out to her by her in-laws. She said if she had made up her story, rather than bringing her children to the old mud house, she would have taken them to the governor’s house. The mud house, she said, did not compare with her father’s house in “the other world.” She said she only left her father’s house with a black bag and a Qur’an, which are still in her possession.
She also claimed to have dreamt of her father once, who was all tears, lamenting with his finger in his mouth that he warned his daughter not to embark on this journey. She said her husband pleaded with her in her dreams each time his people offended her. She said her husband said the reason he insisted she took his children to his parents was for his parents to have the joy of raising his children as they did not have such opportunity with him even as a first child.
The parents said they could not remember where they buried Abdulazeez.
 The survival of heavily pregnant Taiyelolu and the future of her three children pose a challenge to her. She said the aged parents of her “ghost” husband could no longer work, hence, the fate of her children hung in the balance.
When she called our reporter last Monday, she said she was having signs that she would soon put to bed. She, therefore, appealed to the Osun State governor, Mr Rauf Aregbesola; his wife, Alhaja Sherifat, other well-meaning Nigerians, including corporate organisations and non-governmental organisations to come to her aid by empowering her so that her future and that of her three children abandoned could be secure.
What about her husband? She says he these days appears only in her dream’’


MIDE MARTINS MARRIAGE COLLAPSED

Beautiful Nollywood actress Mide Martins, marriage to Afeez Owo, a notable Nollywood actor and producer has crashed. According to source, it was gathered that the marriage packed up on an alleged infidelity accusation by Afeez, whom had always been suspicious of his wife’s movement and whenever he confronted her with the allegation, her responses were not pleasing to his ear. 


Months ago, he decided he couldn’t handle her infidelity anymore and separated from the actress despite pleas from friends and family.
“The couple have been having issues with their marriage several months back but the crack became evident after the couple started living separately this year” said the source..  

Saturday 7 December 2013

NOLLYWOOD AGAIN: BOSE AKANMU'S VIDEO

It is just a pity that our ladies are  just carried away with infatuations love that they mistaking for genuine love. Guy nowadays were heartless and they can go to any length to destroy any lady or sugar-mummy who refuse to play the game in their own terms and conditions. The term and condition is MONEY, you just have to be their ATM any day anytime.

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Unfortunately, days to Bose’s wedding this year, her wicked ex uploads the video on the internet and it’s gone viral!

 Once again, ladies you need to be very careful who you date and what you do with them. 




Friday 6 December 2013

NELSON MANDELA: WORLD LEADERS PAID TRIBUTE

President Jacob Zuma said: "Our nation has lost its greatest son. Our people have lost a father.

The Queen said she is "deeply saddened by Mandela's death".


President Obama said: "I am one of the countless millions who drew inspiration from Nelson Mandela's life. My very first political action, the first thing I ever did that involved an issue or a policy or politics, was a protest against apartheid. I studied his words and his writings. The day that he was released from prison gave me a sense of what human beings can do when they're guided by their hopes and not by their fears. And like so many around the globe, I cannot fully imagine my own life without the example that Nelson Mandela set, and so long as I live I will do what I can to learn from him.
"To Graça Machel and his family, Michelle and I extend our deepest sympathy and gratitude for sharing this extraordinary man with us. His life's work meant long days away from those who loved him the most. And I only hope that the time spent with him these last few weeks brought peace and comfort to his family"
"For now, let us pause and give thanks for the fact that Nelson Mandela lived - a man who took history in his hands, and bent the arc of the moral universe toward justice. May God bless his memory and keep him in peace."

Prince William and the Duchess of Cambridge, who attended the Royal premiere of the new Nelson Mandela film, Long Walk To Freedom, in London this evening, is quoted by the BBC as saying: "It is extremely sad and tragic news."

UK Labour Leader Ed Miliband Tweeted: "Deep condolences to Graca Machel, his family and friends and to all the people of South Africa. The world has lost the global hero of our age. Nelson Mandela showed us the true meaning of courage, hope, and reconciliation."

UN Secretary General Ban Ki Moon said: "Only because of such a great man like Nelson Mandela is it possible that particular people in Africa and elsewhere are able to enjoy freedom and human dignity. We have to learn the wisdom and determinations and commitment of Mr Mandela to make this world better for all."

Former US President Bill Clinton said: "History will remember Nelson Mandela as a champion for human dignity and freedom, for peace and reconciliation."

F.W. De Klerk, former South African President, said: "I think Nelson Mandela's legacy is 'don't be bitter about the past - take the hands also of your former enemies'. Peace is the best way forward and in order to have lasting peace you need to have reconsideration, there needs to be also forgiveness. I liked him and I immediately felt that this is truly a man of greatness."

Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu said: "He was the father of his people, a man of vision, a freedom fighter who rejected violence."


Thursday 5 December 2013

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: HUSBAND BURNT HIS WIFE BECAUSE SHE IS TOO BEAUTIFUL

Janet Mwihaki, a citizen of Kenya   was burnt by her husband because she is too beautiful after being married for than two years.

Janet, a victim of the domestic violence, met her fate after giving birth to their third son in 2005.
Janet got married to John way back in the day when she was still a beautiful woman in 1999. In 2000, she gave birth to their first child, their second in 2002, and their last born in 2005, that was when her husband started changing his character towards her.

It was gathered that Janet’s entire body is currently burned and disfigured.  Before she got burnt however, she separated from him for a year and police advised her to report him to the authorities if she ever saw him again.

John was given a ten-year jail sentence for the crime he committed.


NOLLYWOOD: UCHE IWUJI MARRIAGE COLLAPSED BECAUSE OF THIS NUDE PICTURE

Nollywood actress, Uche Iwuji marriage to her international businessman husband, Mr. Juwon Lawal, has crashed barely one year.

It was discovered that the revelation of what caused the marriage break-up was her unclad photo that went viral had a huge role to play in the collapse of the once happy marriage.

According to the source Uche, secret affair with a top banker was discovered by her husband Mr. Lawal, through some BBM messages which included unclad pictures of the actress, which she allegedly sent to her lover boy..

SHOCKING: GBENGA KAKA PROPOSING A BILL TO SEND BLOGGERS TO JAIL

In this 21st century, how could someone in his right thinking sense be proposing and lobbying his colleagues in the Senate to pass a bill ‘to send Nigerian to Jail should they found wanting of hyper criticizing the government’?


It was gathered that the man behind this wicked bill is no other person than Senator Alhaji Sefiu Adegbenga Kaka, an All Progressive Congress member representing Ogun East Senatorial district.

The main reason for this ‘’slavery bill’’ according to a Senator from the South South from the Peoples Democratic Party who spoke to Transparency For Nigeria, said they were shock to their marrow when Senator Kaka began to lobby them to horridly pass the bill into law. When asked why they were shocked, he noted; “between us in PDP and his party, who have you guys helped more? Who have you critics and journalists defended and attacked more? We are at the receiving end of you press men in the media while you paint them as angels. Ordinarily, we should be the one sponsoring such bill, not APC”.

A highly placed source within the APC fold who is not happy with the bill confided that the bill is being sponsored for 2015. When asked what he meant by that, he revealed that they (APC) will form the central government in 2015 and they will not want to face the kind of critical reports and write-ups currently being faced by the PDP, hence they have to act now before the time. He however stated that he was not in support of such bills that gag freedom of expression.

Then the question we need to asked APC is that are we going back to military era, where decree 4 was the in thing?