THESE ARE SOME OF THE SIGNS WHEN A MAN IS ONLY AFTER SEX

The very first time i read this article, i just went through it as a normal write-up. However, by the time i went through again this week-end, i saw lots of truth been revealed in it. I resolved to share this with ladies all over the world. Happy reading.

‘’1. Weekday lovers

If your guy has a virtual do not disturb sign up  over the weekends, this is a clear sign that he is reserving weekends for someone else on his to-do list  or keeping his options open to meet other women. "Personally, when a girl is just a girl I'm into for sex, I'll never ask her out on a weekend. Weekends are strictly reserved for A-lists and new opportunities. Let’s take the Kenyan (Nigeria) scenario, one invites you for blankets and wine and the other buzzes you on a random Friday with Sepetuka ( Real) tickets. The sepetuka(Real) guy most likely wants to score after the gig while the blankets and wine guy actually wants to chill and have a nice time with you.

2. Sporadic contact

A guy who is really into you communicates with you regularly. A guy who is in it for the coochie(sex only), calls, texts, emails and pops-over only when he is feeling frisky and knows that you will indulge his desires. If the sight of your man's name on your caller ID surprises you, chances are, this is a sex only situation. I hear chics saying he doesnt call or text because he is too busy, unless he is a deep sea diver, no man would be too busy to text at least once or twice a day.

3. Invitation to nowhere

You never get invited to anything meaningful like dinner, movie or lunch its always for his boys birthday party at his crib in Umoja( His backyard), a random night with the boys. Bottom line: "Dates" are always cozy nights in. Why? Because that is the easiest place to, you guessed it... to get laid. Everything falls into place its warm and cosy inside, the vibe is right, good music, you get tipsy, start dosing, offers  shoulder, lips touch neck, lips connect , nearest bed is one second away and the rest is history..Got it ladies?

4. Time's up!

You spend just enough time together for a little foreplay, sex and maybe a nap. Unless there's time and desire for a round two, a sex-only motivated man will vanish like a thief in the night before you even have time to nuzzle into little-spoon position. Sunday afternoon he says he is in the neighbourhood, you invite him over, he comes in you offer a drink, he insists that you join him too, 30 minutes later he is in and out of Canaan. Next thing you know he is at the door getting his shoes back on heading over to Sheila's place to watch soccer now that you’re watching Tahidi High reruns.

5. Late-night lovers

A sure in-it-for-the-sex-only sign is when your man only reaches out to you after hours, when the day is done and quite possibly last call has been shouted. Although he coos for you sweetly on the other end of the phone, perhaps begging for your hot body, just know that you might be on a long list of lovelies, any of one of whom can satisfy his sexual cravings for the evening. Ladies you know this happens in July or those random Fridays when you re indoors alone, telly is boring and no movie, then he calls, makes you laugh and suggests he can come over or invites you to his. Looking at your situation, you jump for it either way , its turning out to be one hell of a boring night. 

6. Tangoless texts

The sex-only guy is remorseless and feels no guilt whatsoever when it comes to leaving your texts un-responded to for hours - even days - and sometimes doesn't respond at all.  Same goes for phone calls, emails, Facebook messages, tweets or any other form of communication. Problem is, the ones that respond promptly never get laid but the ones that don’t get more than they can handle. It takes a mature girl who knows exactly what she wants to spare no time for a guy that isn’t courteous enough to revert.

7. Sexy speak

You two speak one language: Sex. And that's it. If you think hard about it, you may know everything about how he likes "it" but you have no clue where his parents live, what he wanted to be when he grew up, his favourite meal, if he has a middle name. There's lots of moaning and groaning but no cater about work, family, friends, problems, triumphs, etc.  "A woman who presents herself as a sexual showpiece will be treated that way. Come to the table at the very beginning with more than just the ability to blow me away in the bedroom. Blow away my mind too and that way I'll consider you relationship worthy. e.g. if all the time he texts about how hot your bum looks on that snap you just posted on Instagram, be warned. If he is constantly on your Instagram but doesn’t even follow you on Twitter, chances are he is only interested in what he can see and not you have to say. ‘’

Culled from: Vibeweekly

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OUR CELEBRANT OF THE MONTH: ASOJU SHERI ONANUGA @ 60

Asoju Sheri  Onanuga is the celebrant of the month. We called her, Aunty, Sister, Egbon, Alhaja, and Mummy etc. Aunty Sheri is a mother, wife, sister to many, easy going and down to earth person.

A proud Ijebu woman per excellence, she attended Muslim Girls High School, Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State, Nigeria. Our big sister is a business woman of note, which is the trace of Ijebu in her blood.

As families and friends are wishing you happy 60^th birthday, we from 'Blog with fury' wishes you many more fruitful years ahead.

DR ABU AMEENAH BILAL PHILIPS VISA TO VISIT NIGERIA IS IN ORDER

I have read lot of comments about this guy on why our Diplomatic Mission gave him visa to visit Nigeria. Some claimed the man is a terrorist, some said his preaching is ant-Christian, etc.

Be that as it may, this man is a world citizen, according to human right chater, the definition of freedom of movement is as follows: ‘Freedom of movement, mobility rights or the right to travel is a human right concept that the constitutions of numerous states respect. It asserts that a citizen of a state in which that citizen is present has the liberty to travel, reside in, and/or work in any part of the state where one pleases within the limits of respect for the liberty and rights of others, and to leave that state and return at any time’ , that is to say, Dr Abu Ameenah Bilal Philips , has the right to travel, visit, associate, with anybody or any organisation he likes anywhere in the world.

Been an Islamic preacher do not make him a satanic man, and for him to visit Nigeria will not bring the country down! If he is a security threat, then what are the jobs of all our security agents that we invested heavily on?

Boko-Haram has been killing innocent people in Nigeria for a long-time now, Was there any proof that linked him to this organisation? Who knows whether is coming will stop the activities of this virus called BOKO-HARAM.  

WHY I REJECTED CENTENARY AWARD...WOLE SOYINKA

Nobel laureate, Professor Wole Soyinka, said, yesterday, he rejected his nomination for centenary award by the Federal Government because he could not share the award with the late Head of State, General Sani Abacha, who he described as a “murderer and thief of no redeeming quality”.

“I can’t think of nothing more grotesque and derisive of the lifetime struggle of several of this (Honours) List and their selfless services to humanity”, Soyinka said in a statement entitled, `The Canonisation of Terror’.
“I reject my share of this national insult”, Soyinka added.

Listing some of the atrocities that took place under Abacha that made the late Nigerian leader of undeserving of the centenary award, the Nobel Laureate said: “It is a confidence trick that speaks volumes of the perpetrators of such a fraud. We shall pass over – for instance – the slave mentality that concocts loose formulas for an Honours List that automatically elevate any violent bird of passage to the status of nation builders who may, or may not be demonstrably motivated by genuine love of nation.

Accordingly, generalized but false attributes to known killers and treasury robbers is a disservice to history and a desecration of memory. It also compromises the future.

This failure to discriminate, to assess, and thereby make it possible to grudgingly concede that even out of a ‘doctrine of necessity’ – such as military dictatorship – some demonstrable governance virtue may emerge, reveals nothing but national self-glorification in a moral void, the breeding grounds of future cankerworm in the nation’s edifice.

”Such abandonment of moral rigour comes full circle sooner or later.

The survivors of a plague known as Boko Haram, students in a place of enlightenment and moral instruction, are taken to a place of healing dedicated to an individual contagion – a murderer and thief of no redeeming quality known as Sani Abacha, one whose plunder is still being pursued all over the world and recovered piecemeal by international consortiums – at the behest of this same government which sees fit to place him on the nation’s Roll of Honour!”

Culled from: Osun defender.

NIGERIA HIGH COMMISSION IN GHANA TURNS THERE BACK ON DYING NIGERIAN: AND THE MAN DIED

I saw this write-up bellow from my friend Michael Ayeni’s  page on facebook. By the time I read through his lamentations, and the comments that follow, I concluded that majority of Nigerian Officials in our missions all over the world are just there for the cabals only and they are not for us Nigerians. They are bunches of animals in human skin.

Enjoy the reading:   ‘’ONE of the saddest things i ever experienced just happened here in Ghana that will make you hate to be a Nigerian. 4 days ago i was called over to an internet cafe i used to browse over a sick Yoruba Nigerian that was sleeping outside a hospital housed by same building with the cafe. I got there talked with the guy but the information he gave was not clear and he was not able to talk much. I was told a Ghanaian woman brought him to the hospital after finding him in a gutter. The Hospital gave treatment but later asked his nationality and any one they could reach as a Nigerian he knows. I was told he kept mentioning one Biodun who brought him to Ghana but does not know his current position and location. 

I tried talking to him and just could not get anything helpful. Now he was sleeping on the floor outside the hospital. I came back there yesterday and still got no Info, a friend talked more to him and still got little info. Today arrangement was made by another Nigerian and he was taken to the Nigeria High Commission. I was told that the guy who took him there was almost hand cuffed together with his driver for that act and when they argued they were concerned Nigerians, they were told to take him away to where he was brought from. He was returned and Died 2 hours after that, as i write his corpse is right here covered and i just can't think, shock is an understatement. Anger????? i feel like burning the High Commission. When are we ever going to be seen as citizens of that country sef!!!! it is like you got to be in power to be a citizen.’’

28-YEAR OLD BARTHOLOMEW OBITUBE SENTENCED TO DEATH IN MALAYSIA FOR DRUG TRAFFICKING

 Prince Bartholomew Obitube, 28, Nigerian, has been sentenced to death by a Shah Alam High Court in Malaysia for trafficking in marijuana.

Obitube, according to the report at the time of his arrest is a student with a private college in Kuala Lumpur was sentenced yesterday after a trial which lasted about three years.

He was reportedly arrested by police from the Gombak Narcotic Crime Investigation Department with 9,189kg of the illegal substance at Desa Satu Apartment, Gombak on August 20, 2011 after a tip off.

The convict was said to have tried to run away with a backpack containing the drugs when the police swooped on him. The offense, under the Dangerous Drugs Act in the country, provides a mandatory death sentence upon conviction.

NB: It’s all because of worldly things!!!