Popular Islamic scholar and preacher, Sheik
Muyideen Bello, has said a Muslim man will be doing himself more harm by marrying
just one wife,he then encourages them to start with two. He made this known in
one of his lectures titled Legal Marriage. Enjoy!
“Allah said a man should
marry any kind of woman he likes. As a man, if you want to marry a
fair-complexioned or dark woman, marry her. Allah said we should start from 2
women. I know women will not like to hear this. If you have to marry, start
with 2 women, that is what the Quran says. The Yorubas have a saying that a man
with 1 woman isn’t a real man. For instance if you are married to 1 wife and
she over-salts your food, you have just 1 wife. You don’t have a choice than to
eat the food or buy food outside.
“I have received so many
messages from people that why should I encourage polygamy. I tell them, is it
me encouraging polygamy? Allah said you should marry 2, 3, 4. Allah said if as
a man you know you can’t take care of them, then marry 1. Then if you are a
me&my wife kind of man, the implications are too many. As Muslims, 4 women
is the maximum a man can have, have 2 living with you then if you have 2 houses
outside, you put the other 2 there. The implications in marrying just 1 wife
are too many.
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