REASONS MARRIAGES FAIL IN NIGERIA......

There have been lots of talks in recent times that marriages are not the same as it was in the time of our parents. Several theories have been put forward on why Marriages are crashing and divorce rate increasing.... So what do you think is the number 1 reason marriages fail in Nigeria? We are focusing on Nigeria only....read some of the reasons below…add you own, we are all learning here….

One commentator writes :”The mindset that a man uses to enter marriage. They have been told that they are the head and therefore they should act like such. Some take it to mean, they are the head and should suppress the woman. Women nowadays are entering marriage with the mindset that they contribute almost equally towards the family, no man should try to dictate to them. Even my boyfriend now keeps telling me that I am rude because I try to make my points and pass my opinion. He is always almost short of telling me to shut up. I am just looking at him..... “

Another opinion : “It fails cuz they rather run their mouth on social media instead of facing each other. 85% of our mothers face dis violent yet they still married. It called dignity. They believe not only armed roberry is a disgrace. So when they r bn violated they endure. Most of dis days wives r more or less street whore. Any arguement am packing den cookup a story just to b held on social media.”

Martins Aboy writes :” There is no particular reason as to why marriages fail in Nigeria;its actually different strokes for every couple out there..

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"But in my opinion,i think what tops it most is this two..

1) Lack of love in the marriage which mostly leads to insecurity and infidelity

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2) Lack of finance to run the home(financial incapability) which probably leads to frustration and with time if the couple dont understand themselves;Hatred coupled with regret sets in and the love dies,then every other thing becomes history..”

Another one writes: “I think the reason why marriages fail is because when there is little or no understanding between couples, when they can merely tolerate one another without any slightest provocation, when you don't Marry your best friend. When a woman forces a man to marry her or uses pregnancy to try and hook him, all these leads to forceful marriage and when the two partners aren't in love then they start having problems and that could lead to early breakup in marriage. It's like a guy who has a girlfriend in Lagos and loves her so much but the parents insists he must Marry from the village, he eventually gets married to someone he barely knows and their marriage starts having hiccups, whose fault is it?”