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Sunday 28 September 2014

IS THERE A PARTICULAR AGE WHEN A LADY MUST GET MARRIED?... CANDID COMMENTS FROM MY FRIENDS


Floxy Alaneme :It is d will of God of God for a lady to get married to her own husband wt whom she will raise a family to d glory of God.
But it is not right to pressurize a lady who due to circumstances like choice,time,psychological,economical etc has not been able 'to bring home' her a suitor home...Such pressure can lead to desparation which will hv nagetive impact at d long run.

 Wale Adedayo :As long as she is matured, from age 18. But an average Yoruba wants the daughter to have graduated or trained as an artisan with a job at hand before getting married. But this same group will not like it IF she remains at home at age 27/28 without anyone asking for her hand in marriage. The serious pressure starts from age 30.

Funmi Bisiriyu :Hmm. Sometimes, it is good. When parents discover that their daughter knows nothing than to date all men (lives a rough life), I think that is when they force her to marry; then they marry her out to a man of their own choice or force her to bring a man of her choice.

 Olanrewaju Oduwole :Whenever you find love, and you want to be married, please, do so. The young, and the old, we all fall in love. I do not think there should be a particular age for any adult to get married. I believe one should start thinking of marriage from eighteen years and above. I see no reason why a woman of seventy years and above cannot get married if she wants to. Thanks.

Uche Okolie: In my own view,yes.A lady has time limit in her parents house.There are many factors that has to do with nature which are there to remind u in case ur still getting on with life.1.Age.from ur 25-30,u are ripe for marriage.Between these period,men ought to be disturbing u.2.U must plan when to be through with ur child bearing bc of menopause.3.No parent will be happy to see his or her child still leaving in d same house with them when she ought to be in her husband's house,that is not our prayer.If at ur 20s to 30 and no man has approached u for marriage only for friendship,run to God with sincere heart,He will untie things to normal.

 Uche Okolie: No,is not right that is why every African woman should know that we have a different culture than that of d white and leave and think African or else ur parents may push u out not really willingly but rather to avoid shame of withstanding other parents whose children have married

Akinduro Clement: yes women should set a certain age of marriag for themselves,they should know hardly would they see single men coming their ways wen they ar over 30yrs. but parent shouldnt presuriz


Ugie Blessing Anojoh :Gods time is the best if we are too fast we may get d wrong choice and have to manage it and if we are too late same thing we just d holy spirit to guide us.

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